Are you “isolating” and “withdrawing” or do you just need to spend some time alone?

Are u isolating?

Everything Matters: Beyond Meds

Alone in nature: my idea of heaven

In mainstream mental health circles we are encouraged to believe that “isolating” or “withdrawing” is always bad, that it is in fact pathological.

This is really too bad, as part of healing from mental distress for most people requires spending some time alone. Unfortunately, we find that in professional mental health circles this very natural inclination is often maligned and people are shamed if they show a propensity toward needing time alone.

I certainly need to be alone sometimes and have found some of my deepest healing and found access to those places in the alone times.

Anyone who has spent time in a psych ward know that people are prodded out of their bedrooms and forced to socialize and be in “group,” regardless of whether it’s actually helpful or not. Then if one shares that they would prefer to be alone it…

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Bobbi Kristina our thoughts r with u

Nick-Gordon-and-Bobbi-Kristina-Brown-Happier-Times-490x342 A 4 of March native, she is a sensitive Pisces. A Week of the Loner soulful, intimate loner! Over sensitive to be exact. On top of that she had an unsettled childhood with those famous parents with drug problems. It doesn’t surprise me that she paired up with this boy she grew up with because week of the loner natives become friends with their partners. It has been reported that Gordon moved out recently and she was depressed about it. Her relatives said they are ere not legally married. Let’s pray for a miracle. Numerologist com has made the calculations and her life path is a master number 11. He says:

Bobbi, your Life Path of 11 …

You are what is known as a master number. The number 11 is the symbol of the spiritual seeker. Your purpose in this life time is to achieve enlightenment. Sometimes this is done by finding a teacher and other times it is a matter of experiencing an number of negative situations that are designed to rid you of toxic emotional connections and clear your karma. If you are a number eleven and seem to be having a rough time then keep in mind that is typical of your number to experience a life filled with mysterious losses and either very fortunate or unfortunate twists of fate.

Part of your trying experiences is the cosmos’ way of pushing you into finding the spiritual awareness that you need to elevate your soul. The number 11 path is often called the Path of Extremist simply because you lead a life filled with so many highs and lows. You are often like two people. One life is your public life in which you might appear as an eccentric or unusual character and the other is your secret life, which is obsessed with finding the answers to eternal questions. You are probably a fairly well educated person who is still looking for answers when it comes to spirituality. One of the character traits of a number 11 is to look far and wide for lofty spiritual answers when often the answer is right underneath your nose. As number 11’s can be quite snobbish or proud of their status as a spiritual seeker the universe often presents them with many lessons that serve to challenge their pride. You probably don’t fit into society very well and have to do a lot of pretending and acting to survive in a normal job or relationship. You have unusual tastes and may have a bohemian character that is very interested in the new and avant-garde. Your broad-minded point of view and permissiveness with morals makes you lots of enemies and friends alike. If there is one thing that your friends find frustrating about you it is that you are a bit of a fence sitter. Your ability to see so many angles of a situation often causes you to be indecisive or not to act at all. For this reason many 11’s often let opportunities in life pass them by. They are so focused on being visionaries that they forget to pay attention to small practical details. Your sharp intuition and rich understanding of both spirituality and human nature makes you the perfect spiritual counselor. Even if this is not your profession you have probably noticed that others naturally seek out your guidance and advice during a crisis. You are a very idealistic individual and envision a world in which everyone is equal. For this reason you somewhat dislike the idea of relationships as they mean that one human should be more exclusive to you than another. One of your highest spiritual qualities is to make everyone that you meet feel like they are special and a soul mate. If you are an 11, it is also typical for the needs of your personality to be in constant conflict with the direction of your higher self. You have probably noticed that you get away with a lot less than other numbers. For instance if you do a bad deed, the resulting bad karma seems more immediate. This is because your path is a path of retribution that is about the negation of the self to allow the higher self to be divinely inspired by a higher power.
Your Expression Number
Your Expression – which describes your potential natural talents and abilities – works out to be a 5. How Is Your Expression Calculated? What we are going to do now is turn all the letters in your name at birth into numbers, using the following chart :
In practice I put the vowels above the name and the consonants underneath. This is because your Soul Urge is derived from the vowels alone, so it makes it easier at the next step to do it this way. Again there is one exception to the rule and this is with the letter ‘Y’. If it acts as a consonant and is pronounced it is classed as being a consonant. If it is not pronounced or acts as a vowel it is classed as being a vowel. The ‘Y’ in Yolande, for instance, would be classed as being a consonant, but the ‘Y’ in Larry would be classed as being a vowel as it acts as a vowel.

Let’s work out your Expression number,

Bobbi !Using the above chart we would put a ‘2’ below the ‘B’ in your first name. We would follow this with a 6 placed above the ‘o’, then a 2 below the ‘b’, a 2 below the ‘b’, and so on…

We then carry on in the same manner with the rest of your name. When you are finished, you should end up with a chart like this:

6 9 9 9 1 6
B o b b i K r i s t i n a B r o w n
2 2 2 2 9 1 2 5 2 9 5 5

Now we simply add up the numbers in each row.

The top row: 6 + 9 + 9 + 9 + 1 + 6 = 40

The bottom row: 2 + 2 + 2 + 2 + 9 + 1 + 2 + 5 + 2 + 9 + 5 + 5 = 46.

We now add the total of the top and bottom rows, which gives us 40+46=86. Adding 8 + 6 gives us 14. Adding 1 + 4 gives us 5 And so, Bobbi, your Expression is 5.

What a Number ‘5’ Expression Says About You

You are also very accepting of new people and new ideas. The last thing that could ever be said of you is that you are closed minded….


Bobbi, your Expression of 5 … Your Potential Natural Talents and Abilities

You are optimistic, inquisitive and embrace change. You are a freedom-loving individual who expresses their love of independence often through a bohemian or unusual life style. You are blessed with a brilliant creative mind that is never at a loss for a solution to a problem.

As your independence is so important to you, you thrive best in creative occupations that allow you a great deal of travel. You have an eye for design and appreciate the good things in life. In fact, you may spend a lot of your time trying to figure out how to get these things without having to work too hard. If you are a typical five then you will meet with the most success by selling some aspect of yourself or your talent. The height of your personal expression is in your talent for persuasion. This is why you are best suited for jobs in media, marketing and design. You very much believe that a person is defined by what he does and not what he wants to do so any business or project that you start will be very much branded with your personal flair. It is a number 5 that tends to name a business after himself or send out a resume with a photo. When it comes to business you also tend to have a “hands on” approach as you rely a lot on your wit, charm and good looks to get what you want. Once the deal is sealed, however, you sometimes have difficulty seeing it through to completion. This is because your brilliant mind is captured by so many other interests that it is difficult for you to focus sometimes. Sometimes your need to express your independence brings you to a critical point in both your professional and personal relationships. You are terrified of being stuck in one place or having your free spirit suffocated by labels and possessiveness. For this reason many of you feel quite suffocated in relationships or are unable to hold down a day job for any length of time. You are very popular socially because you are the life of every party. You have light nimble mind and have excellent verbal skills. You also have enormous powers of analysis that gives you an edge when it comes to investing money, judging others and avoiding harmful situations. You are also very accepting of new people and new ideas. The last thing that could ever be said of you is that you are closed minded. You will try anything once and you often respond willingly to a dare. However, sometimes your permissiveness leads to relationships with odd or unstable individuals. Romantically others may find you hard to get close to as you would rather sit and chat than get intimate. Others fail to understand that the most valued expression of your love is the expression of your hopes and dreams to another. You are also very pragmatic when it comes to all of your relationships and believe in treating everyone equally. Deep down you are very philosophical about relationships and believe that no person should be so important that he or she should have the power to make you happy or sad. This can often distress your soul mate who doesn’t feel that special in your presence. Part of your challenge might be showing through your actions, how loving all without sacrificing one can be achieved.

“Now, Let’s Examine Your Soul Urge…Also known as your “Heart’s Desire.”

Bobbi, your Soul Urge of 4 … What You Desire To Be, To Have, and To Do In Your Life

Your soul craves stability, beauty and order. You are continually distressed by the natural chaos that often describes life and your own life may be entirely devoted to restoring things to balance. This often leaves dutiful and responsible number fours to a long life of service or slaving away for individuals who don’t seem to appreciate all that you do for them.